I have been told many times by many people that I have "spoiled" my kids. "You hold her too much" "You going to regret spoiling her" "she's such a Mommies girl!" Well isnt that what being a mom is about? Letting your kids know that they can trust you so they can feel secure??
In this cruel world I want them to have a place where they can feel that everything is ok and I am so glad that place is in my arms! I love that my girls are "Mommies girls" thats what I am for!!
I love knowing that no matter what I can ALWAYS count on my mom for a hug, even now! One day when my kids are teenagers and screaming that they hate me I am going to be SO grateful that I held them every chance I got!
Just because they would rather me hold them than anyone else dont mean that they are spoiled! They are just incredibly loved and know that I will always be there to give them a hug when ever they need one!
Ok sorry I have just been holding that in for over 3 years, it feels good to get it out :)